"There is one thing that is very rare and far from talent,
And that is to recognize the talent within you."
Why People Like Or Dislike You
We are all born with likes and dislikes, which play a huge role in shaping our personality.
It is said that the one you dislike the most is the one you remember the most. This feeling of negativity settles in our hearts and minds, and often overwhelms us. Some people get so entangled in this that their sleepless nights and daytime peace also disappear.
So can this factor of stress be relieved by changing attitudes?
If we look at the last few years, it will be realized that we have been most unhappy with others only when we have been dissatisfied with ourselves, that is, our inner dissatisfaction with everyone outside entangles us in tension. In the absence of a clear vision or attitude towards oneself, this cycle of dissatisfaction, trouble and misery continues. To prevent this, how do we have to look at ourselves in the mirror of the mind? What is my view of myself?
Psychologists believe that people generally have great discomfort or unhappiness about who they are and how they are. If someone says something wrong about us, then we obey that person, and spend our whole life in that superstition. That is, most people are neither happy with themselves nor with others. Obviously, one who is not positive about himself, how can he be positive about others? The solution to any problem is not in others, it is in making yourself positive.
What Should You Do That People Start Liking You More?
You should know some such things, which if you take it in your life, then people will like you, and you will also bring simplicity in your life.
- Be happy always
- Whenever someone says something, listen carefully to him.
- Do not criticize or criticize anyone in front of others.
- Speak less, speak only when necessary.
- Do not give your suggestions in vain in the work of others.
- Keep up with your work.
- Try to be involved in the happiness and sorrow of others.
- If you are able to help others, then definitely do.
- Always be busy and organized.
Some Tips To Deal With People Who Dislike You
There is no such person in the world whom everyone likes. How easy life would be if we could ignore all the people who don't like us. But we all know that it is not possible to do this in real life.
Man is a social animal. Relationships are very important to us.
In such a situation, some ways to deal with those who dislike you-
- Try to find out what is bothering them about you. You might be really wrong. This will give you an opportunity to learn. This is an opportunity to learn about other people's thoughts and perspectives. Try to communicate with an open mind. There is no solution by blaming each other.
- Live within the realm of civilization. Often in such a situation your desire is to beat or teach a lesson to the person in front, but in any case avoid fighting. Don't get easily agitated by anger. Don't do anything that you may regret later.
- In the end, when nothing is resolved, and you feel that someone hates you for no reason. Then you have to accept that some people live their lives just to make others feel bad. They do not have any concrete purpose in life. That's why he spends his free time like this. Such people are often jealous and it is best to keep a distance from them.
- People who don't like you, and you know they don't like you. So don't waste your precious time by meeting or talking to them. There are also people whom you would love to meet, and they would also love to meet you. Spend time with them.
Don't compromise with your ideals. Don't live just to please others. This path will only lead you to stress and failure. If you are doing this, you may not have accepted yourself yet. Continuously engaged in its development. But don't do all this to impress others. Always remember that you cannot please everyone. Just give your best in what you do.