There comes a stage in our life, when we fall in love. In the beginning everything seems fine, that is our world. But there comes a time when our love leaves us. We have to face breakup. And at that time we do not understand what to do and what not to do. Because we had never imagined it. Everything happens so suddenly that we break down completely. In such a situation, you need to forget that person, The one who hurt you and you broke up now whatever the reason may be you have to forget everything for the time being.
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What we really want now is that the pain of breakup ends soon. But we should understand that we cannot forget the love of so long, it will take time. You have to give yourself to come out from the pain of breakup. After breaking up with our partner, we tend to forget everything quickly in a day. But they do not understand that the relationship which has been around for so long, how can it be forgotten so easily. For this we have to give time to ourselves.
Sometimes The Question Comes In Our Mind, Can We Forget Our Lover?
But our real question should be "How to forget the person you had true feelings for" where I believe there is no easy way. I too experienced a break up but put off thinking about it. That's why I can tell you the ways to forget the past.
Visit Special Places And Make New Friends
When we are in a relationship with someone, it often happens that we have gone to the famous places of that place with that person. First of all, in order to forget the memories related to it, we should leave that place and go to a special place even for a short time. We should make new friends and new relationships in new places.
When we start enjoying new places and our mind will lose the old memories after some time. Then we can come to our old place or create our own happy world in the same place.
Our brain has a very good habit that when we remember new information, it slowly starts eliminating old memories.
Stop Following Or Stocking Social Media
You have to accept that you broke up and I need to stop visiting my ex's social profiles. We also need to block his profile for the time being. There is nothing good in seeing what is happening in his life. By doing this you are wasting your time and nothing else.
Rather you should realize that how much time you wasted by being with your ex, now your days of enjoying have come and you are spending it in his memory.
Forgive And Forget Your Ex Like A Good Memory
Lastly and more importantly, whatever happened in your past needs to be forgotten. Forgiving our ex is for our own good. Forgiveness may not heal the pain your ex caused you, but it will ease your pain. The most important thing is to forgive yourself.
You need to forgive yourself for falling in love with that person and stop thinking about the things that led to the breakup. The first thing you need to know is that your partner who is gone now. He knew each and every weakness of yours, so it is possible that while leaving, he may have said such things which hurt you a lot.
But you must understand that he had to leave your life so he left after proving you wrong and himself right. Rather it is not like that at all, you do not have to come in his words, you have done a lot for your relationship. And you are remembering your ex and not being able to forget it is a proof that you were right and your ex was wrong.
Stop Thinking About What You Want To Forget
If you are reading this blog, then I am sorry to say that you yourself are responsible for making this condition of yours. Because you are also searching the same thing which you want to forget. Stop thinking about anyone you want to forget.
We miss our ex because we are used to it. The easiest way to do this is to give as much time to your family as you used to give to your ex and think about your family. As long as you keep thinking about ex, you will not be able to forget him.
Even if you keep thinking how you will be able to forget your love, still you will not be able to forget. By thinking about it, we always remember him. Stop thinking about them from today itself.
Stay Away From Reminder Things
You have something that reminds you of your ex. Take those things away from you or change the way you look at those things. As long as you have that reminder, you will be reminded of ex. You will not be able to forget even if you want to.
You have to understand this thing by yourself, will you have things that remind you of ex, then you will not remember ex daily? That's why to completely get away from their memories.
Loneliness Is Your Worst Enemy
Just think about it, when do you miss your ex the most? When you are alone or free. So keep yourself from being lonely and free. Keep yourself busy the whole day, go to some party in the evening or keep it with your closest friend or family member.
Keep yourself busy as much as possible. I am not saying that you become so busy that you do not give time to yourself. Sometimes it also happens that no matter how busy you are, you will miss your ex. The best way to do this is don't keep anything in your heart and forgive your ex and free them from your memories.
Eliminate The Need For Ex
Have you ever thought that why do we miss someone? Because you are used to them. So in the beginning you will feel that everything is over, you may even think of ending your life, but gradually everything will be fine. Think for yourself when love does not happen all of a sudden, how can you end the relationship suddenly.
You know why you fall in love with someone because you need something from them. Imagine if you don't expect anything from them. So you can forget everything. Human needs only take us to someone, these needs only compel us to make new relationships. Even if later our needs end and take away the gross of love.
This need can be anything, such as passing time, talking, having fun, etc. You fulfill that need of yours by taking help from someone else for that need of yours. This is an easy way to get over your ex.
Take A Break In Life And Focus On Your Hobby
It's no big deal when our hearts are broken, that we can't feel normal. What happens is that when we break up, we feel ourselves in pain and suffering, we force ourselves to think only about our partner. Actually, we ourselves do such things which remind us of our ex-partner. We have to take this thing seriously that after breakup, give yourself time, keep yourself as busy as possible.